So, there are many truths as I find myself filled with knowledge. I know I’m spiritual and chose a path of light. The saying is true: everyone is a reflection of one’s self. With two novels and manuscripts completed and in the mail, I realize what writing I thought was therapeutic really is but for others to learn from as well. Yes, I’ve lived a hard life. Also, I’ve learned coping skills and how to deliver the truth to others to make sure they have the tools they need. Once you get into that negative mindset, there is a three step method to follow, and it works for many I coach when they too face hard days. Though I have fight in me as I’m a survivor, I realize that my strength is contagious. Something I’ve learned to get others out of that head spot are here to help on any path you find yourself on. The mindset is the key to success to not be taken lightly or jokingly as we are truly what we reflect. My novel I just finished will teach you why these things are important on the discovery of waking up to your true purpose, how to heal yourself, and finally how to help others. To help others impact you and other people so much that positive ripples transpire out of these actions. Here’s my list, and if you want to add anything that helps you, please do so in the comments section as I’m all ears.
1) Friends and family go a long way. Friends you look up to that radiate that glow are good for you.
Note: if you don’t know which friends are good or bad for you don’t worry. Take an inventory of each of them by writing a pro and con list to make sure they are what you need in your life to manifest your personal truth. This can be broken down further by subcategories such as but not limited to: habits, how you feel when you speak with them, what they do for a living, etc. If the negative is more than the positive then you’ll know right there what type of friends they are and what you need for personal growth.
2) Watching a funny movie or a movie that inspires dreams.
Note: we all have to try and try to acheive our dreams. We may not make it our first try, but if we give up then that is when we fail. There are many stars who haven’t gotten it right their first times either. They have stories and the message is that they don’t give up even on their darkest days.
3) Write about observations you make.
Note: What is good and bad in your life and how do your emotions lead you to feel that way? Some folks keep journals for dreams, insights, quotes, and goals. These oftentimes are successful people. Ask yourself what you truly want out of life! As big or small it may seem, there is a path to get there. By focusing on this you’ll feel more focus and purpose.
4) Be realistic, if others believe in what you do then they will actually guide you to get to your path free of charge.
Note: Clearly define your cause. What are you for versus what are you against? If you can preach to the choir on some causes then that will give you signs you’re doing something right. If you get calls asking to make your blog viral, you’ll find oftentimes that they don’t have the talent. Let your ideas be sacred to you but freely share them. Contradictory? Choose your audience and make sure they’re like-minded enough to take what you say to heart.
5) Avoid people who put you down, and avoid false flattery.
Note: Reflect the other persons motives, and follow your heart and gut. You knew everything before your birth and now it’s a matter of connecting the dots to make sure they’re aligned with your life purpose.
If you don’t like your day job, or find that you’re being abused by people you’re not alone. The term, “misery likes company,” is true but remember we are all reflections of ourself. Once you learn that, and control your thoughts- DON’T GIVE UP! Above all else, stay true to you and your harmony. It’ll get your mind in the right state to make good ripples and positive strides aimed for success, rebirth, and I shall pray that you can find the truth among other things that you can find along the way!
Hellen Reaves signing off. Happy Veterans Day weekend!
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